Is your skin picking resulting in permanent damage? Perhaps you have a sense that you must remove imperfections to create smooth, blemish-free, perfect skin? Does your skin picking/scratching take up a lot of time and energy? Have you tried to use willpower to stop, but not been able to? Are you wearing clothes and make up specifically to cover up scars, infections or scabs? Do you feel ashamed, that you have to keep your skin picking a secret?
We specialise in hypnotherapy for Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours (BFRBs) like hair pulling (trichotillomania), skin picking (dermatillomania), nail biting (onychophagia) and thumb sucking. Sian is a Professional Member of The TLC Foundation for Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours, and has completed their professional training for treatment of BFRBs.
In addition to the physical impact of skin picking, people often also experience a sense of shame and isolation, frustration, anxiety and low self-esteem related to the behaviour. This often creates a vicious cycle, as the skin picking has a negative effect on relationships, work and overall quality of life, which often leads to more skin picking to alleviate the uncomfortable feelings being experienced.
While there are instances of people who have started skin picking much earlier than adolescence, most people who pick their skin (or engage in other BFRBs) start between the ages of 11 and 13. It tends to occur more frequently in women, but this may be due to that fact that men tend to under-report health issues. Over time, skin picking often features cycles of varying severity.
Skin picking follows the classic negative cycle: generally, an urge to pick/scratch arises, caused by a trigger (obvious/not, internal/external). The trigger can be active (eg grooming behaviour such as scanning for imperfection) or just a sensation (tingling, itching) that occurs. Attempts at resistance are made, followed by giving in and picking/scratching until reaching a point of satiation, which may take minutes or hours.
Afterwards, immediate feelings of relief start to give way to a strong awareness of the damage done, along with feelings of failure, shame, self-criticism, anxiety and being out of control, and resolution to not pick again. These negative reactions lead to uncomfortable feelings, which often triggers more skin picking.
You may experience all or some of the following symptoms as part of your skin picking:
Skin picking (and other BFRBs) often appear to run in families, which means there may be a genetic predisposition to them. However, there is not yet any conclusive research to indicate that this is the case. It is also worth noting that even if there is no genetic basis to a behaviour, early exposure to important figures having these responses can contribute to an individual modelling their own behaviour after this example eg all the women in our family pick their skin.
Another possible cause may be that skin picking (and other BFRBs) is the result of disruption to the natural grooming behaviours common in most living beings. It has been established that animals in stressful situations can develop similar behaviours eg licking skin too much resulting in scabs, or eating their own fur. Further research is necessary to understand these similarities and how they can further understanding of the conditions and treatment approaches.
Temperament may also have a bearing on the development of skin picking. Recent
research has shown that traits such as perfectionism, anxiety, and low tolerance for boredom and frustration are more prevalent in people who pick their skin (and other BFRBs).
Environmental factors (stressful events) are often clear triggers for an increase in skin picking (and other BFRBs), though it is not clear whether they can function as a single cause that initiates the behaviour. Stress tends to reduce our ability to be in control and increases our focus on short term relief from the unpleasant impacts on mind and body. This can make it challenging to tolerate the discomfort of an urge to pick, or to stop a picking cycle before it gets worse.
Stress and anxiety often also creates a focus on the negative, so self-esteem can drop, and withdrawal and social isolation increase. Strategies to manage stress and anxiety on physical, emotional and mental levels are generally very effective for skin picking, both in the moment and over the long term.
Hypnotherapy is very effective for skin picking (and other BFRBs), as it can help you regain control, increase your awareness and ability to choose more beneficial responses. The hypnotic trance is also good for deep relaxation, so your stress and anxiety levels are reduced, which in turn makes it less likely that you'll want to pick your skin.
In the deeply relaxed state of hypnosis, your subconscious is more receptive to revising thoughts and actions, so you can:
Hypnotherapy can also help you develop the determination, confidence and patience to go through the process of your skin healing and the challenges that are part of the process, such as not picking at scabs or cuticles, keeping going even if you do pick again, and beginning to feel more comfortable with letting light and air onto your skin.
For more information about hypnotherapy for skin picking, or to book an appointment, contact Sian on 07725 732810 or email.
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